Is Our Children Learning? (You Can Help If They Isn’t)
Fatherhood on Friday: Another report sees American schools mired in mediocrity. Here’s how to help your kid rise above.
Now that most of our kids are back to school, here’s a question: How would you react if your kid brought home a report card with 32 C’s on it?
Well, parents, that kid is America. And according to the 23rd annual “Quality Counts” report card issued by Education Week, around two-thirds of its states are skating by in the mid-70s on a 100-point scale. It’s a big, bulging bell curve, with 12 B’s, seven D’s … and zero A’s.
The closest to getting an A were those smartypantses from New Jersey, who ended the four-year reign of Massachusetts. But that’s less important than the report’s overall trends, which are borne out from the 39 financial, academic, and socioeconomic factors that the report comprises:
- Per-pupil funding matters, especially when you can spread it evenly among the wealthier and poorer school districts (well done, Wyoming!)
- Location matters: Most of the top states are clustered in the Northeast and Mid-Atlantic.
- Success matters: The better a state scores, the more likely it is to improve year after year.
As we scroll through this last wave of Back To School photos, it might be unsettling to think the schools our kids are going back to are mired in such mediocrity. And though most of the factors in the report are beyond our control, we parents can do a lot to support our kids at home, including read to them, talking with them, and building their mathematical concepts (with puzzles!).
Whatever you’re able to do, even if it’s just be present to take an interest in your kid’s day at school, is crucial. So that one day you can look at your child and say, “One day, you can be smarter than the president.”
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Summer may be ending, but the ghosts of camp ghost stories still remain, out there, somewhere.
- “I hate to sound old, but “back in my day,” we were paddled. Yep, old school corporal punishment. I am NOT advocating that.” — Mickey Farmer; Above or Below the Line?
- “I once heard it was soft to take paternity leave, to be there for your child’s birth and their first few weeks.” — James Lopez; Dads Need and Should Take Paternity Leave
- “The world is opening up for them in many ways, and I want to share in that with them. I can’t do that if my mind is on that hill, stubbornly pushing a boulder that will roll back down.” — Doug Zeigler; A Completionist’s Reckoning
- “Had I known this would have such a positive impact on your ability to get up and ready on school mornings, I would adopt kittens at the start of every school year.” — Scott Lacey; Starting Another Year Together
- “When I was a child, I was beautiful, but no one let me know that. Other kids told me that I was funny looking.” — Justin Cascio; If America’s #1 Dad Couldn’t Save His Son with a Whupping, None of Our Kids Are Safe
‘GRAM OF THE WEEK
A hashtag like #SwaggyLikeHisDaddy is hard to beat.
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Photo Education Week.
Originally published at https://www.dad2summit.com on September 6, 2019.