History Has Its Eyes On Us
Fatherhood on Friday: The story of Lin-Manuel Miranda’s dad inspired him to write Hamilton and infuse it with multiple fatherly themes.
Last week, we took a break. Sort of. We published a week’s worth of Fatherhood on Friday news, but we also wanted to reanimate the old-fashioned three-day weekend, when work and news weren’t nearly as intrusive as now. And since we were planning to kick back and watch the new Hamilton film, we ended with a congratulatory tweet from Luis Miranda, humbled to “share his boy with the world.”
Which seemed appropriate, since Lin says that while reading Ron Chernow’s Hamilton biography, he saw the story of his own father, who arrived on the mainland from Puerto Rico at 18 and spent four decades as a consultant in New York politics. He also recognized in Hamilton his father’s “relentlessness” and inability to just hang out, as depicted in the documentary, Siempre, Luis.
“With Hamilton,” Lin says, “ I was just playing my father. “
In the context of months of protest following George Floyd’s killing, the story is subject to a whole new battery of analysis and criticism. But now that the story is so much more accessible (by Miranda’s account, more people saw the film over the first three days of its release than saw the play since it debuted in 2015), we see a lot of other fatherly themes Miranda chose to emphasize: Hamilton’s early fatherless destitution; his joy when his first child arrived (“when you smile, I am undone”); and [SPOILER ALERT] his despair over his death.
There’s also his father/son relationship with George Washington, who counsels Hamilton about the burden of his position. As fathers bracing for all the work have ahead, to survive COVID, to strike a greater balance of childcare with our partners, to help our kids learn how the world is and still demand what it could be, we’re feeling history’s eyes, too.
ON THE PODCAST: Fatherhood Is Dope host Aaron McGee
The creator and host of the Fatherhood Is Dope podcast (and future Tennessee governor) Aaron McGee has a lot to say about how his upbringing, education, and faith made him into a compelling interviewer who is eager to talk about fatherhood from every viewpoint there is.
We talk about life with his three-year-old daughter, the musts and mustn’ts of creating a podcast, and why Nashville is the Athens of the South. (Don’t tell Athens, Georgia.)
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“I want to show him that apologizing and moving forward is better than silence, and passive aggressiveness, and everything that I learned growing up.” — Seth Kellas, My Toddler Called Me Mean Today And He Was Right
“To foster a child’s ability to respect others, parents should convey early and often that it’s OK to notice and talk about differences among people.” — Vincent O’Keefe, Disability Rights Movement Can Inform Today’s Parenting
“He was endlessly entertaining and, without realizing it, inadvertently shaping my sense of composition and prose while quickly becoming my favorite read.” — Dave Grohl, “Your Writing Has Punch, David. Punch Is Power!”
“And I need you to hear me, should you be a Black boy, to know that you will be viewed as dangerous, as an animal, as a monster, as a menace, by some, just because you are a Black male.” — Kevin Powell, A Letter From Father to Child
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Originally published at https://dad2.com on July 10, 2020.